So ive been with this girl since she was in 7th grade. I moved in with her and her grandmother when she was in 9th grade. And the love we have for each other is as real and intense as it gets. Her situation is very unique. when she was in 4th grade her mom started doing drugs and left the house and has been in and out of her life ever since then. shes lived with her grandmother over all these years. Her grandmother is a nurse and works everynight from 11pm to 7am. and her grandmother has always been really hard on her taking all her anger that she has for her mom doing drugs out on my girlfriend. all of this has forced her to learn how to take care of her self at a very young age and making her much more mature then others her age. so one day she just asked me if i would move in with her and i didnt hesitate. i know how hard her life is and i wanted to be there every minute helping make her life easyer with dealing with her mom and grandmother. the love we share for each other is like a love story i cant express it in words. so we broke up once after a year and a half of being together and me living with her. we had goi into a argument because i had a suspicion of her talking to this kid. she got mad that i didnt trust her and spent a couple days at her friends house who is a single party girl. and thats when she called and said she wanted to break up. she said she felt she was married and didnt want that at this age. she said she need some space and wanted to focus on her and hanging out with her friends more but didnt want to loose me. she said she wanted me in her life and would deffinately want me to be the person who married her and spent our lives together. but she couldent handle it right now. it was really hard for me to take since it was so out of the blue. we didnt talk for a while and she started talking to another kid. we started talking again and she breaks up with this kid after a month and she wants to get back together. and again the love between us was unbelievable! she told me that breaking up with me was the worse decision shes ever made and would never put me through that again. she gets really emotional and cries whenever its brought up. so weve been together now for 2 years and have grown alot. things couldent get any better. christmas just passed and she really wanted this ring. just a little promise ring that she wanted me to get her so bad. so i got it and she wears it everyday and shes always talking about our future. like “one day yoour gonna put that other ring on my finger and well be together forever.” really sweet and sincere things. and we just had a bunch of snow storms here in delaware so weve been snowed in for about 4 weeks and alls shes wanted to do is hang out with me and my friends. so thats what weve been doing. i had a job that required me to spend 3 nights at the beach and couldent talk much so she would call me every night crying that she cant sleep without me next to her. that she missed me so much. so i staid on the phone with her for hours til she fell asleep. and she ended up missing those 3 days pf school because she didnt have the rest she needed and was really lonley. shes close with alot of my friends so she just hung out with them until i got home. so the day i came home from the beach she had lunch plans with an old friend from 5th grade who found her on facebook. i told her to have fun and that i would see her when i got home. i get home and she has our room all cleaned and the lights dimmed and runs over to me jumps up and gives me a huge hug and kiss. we just laid together talking and kissing. it was amazing to just not care about anything and to lay there with her. so my friend decides that the 3 of us should go to the movies so we get dressed and wait for him. i sit with her while shes on facebbok and i clicked on her messages and see some flirty stuff between her and the kid she went to lunch with. i freaked out and she admitted im sorry it was a little flirty it wasnt intentional. she said sorry it wasnt at all how i was making it. and instead of letting it go like i should of i was super mad. we went to the movies and i didnt say a word to her. we get home a couple hours later and my friend leaves. we get ready for bed and it pops in my mind again so i brought it up again for some reason and we got into another arguement. we slept in 2 different spots. so i wake up in the morning and i have a note next to me that says “hey babe, went to alexis’s house. ill be home tomorrow. ill call you a little later. Love you!” we didnt talk much this day. but she calls that night says that shell be home tomorrow i love you and ill see you tomorrow. so i go to sleep wake up to my alarm around 10 and she just so happend to be in he room packing up a bag. hey babe what are you packing for. she said im staying at alexis’s. so i was like for how long, a week? as a joke. and she said “yeah.” so i immediately knew something was wrong hopped up and was like babe come h

1 ANSWER To Me and my girlfriend boke up for after 4 years of weing together. i love her so much and need help! please.?

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