My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years now. He lives in Colorado and I live in Arizona. I will be starting my nursing program here in Az in January of 2010, but I’m slowly starting to resent him for not proposing, especially since early on in our relationship everyone always thought it would happen.Why hasn’t he proposed? He lives in an apartment on his own and makes a decent amount of money. I have mentioned it to him and it got him upset because he didn’t feel he had to just because everyone else was, etc. Yet we basically act like we are husband and wife while I’m there, then I come back to Az angry because I know we aren’t even engaged. Should I chill out and wait until I’m done with nursing school? Which would take 2 years…I’m starting to think that if I am not engaged sometime in 2010 I should end this, because I can’t take it anymore. A lot of my anger towards him is because of this. We are both African and in our culture its not even normal for people to date 3,4, or even 5 years. It’s ridiculous. I always thought people in those types of relationships should split..but now I’m in this type of relationship. So angry…and he keeps trying to persuade me to do a nursing program in CO but why would I if he hasn’t even proposed… Any advice would help.

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