i am 21 and in college. i am currently 17 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. my bf and i have lived together for 2 and half years. i dont want to get married just because i am pregnant. his mother wants us to. i told her no i didnt want to. he just got laid off from circut city when they went out of business. he hasnt even started looking for a new job and we have a baby on the way! i cant work becuase i am on bedrest and in nursing school online classes.
i havent told my mother yet. she is moving to vermont in june. i am thinking about going with her. i plan on telling her this weekend. i know she is going to want me to move with her.
we cant help who we fall in love with but i want to do what is best for my son. i will be almost 7 months pregnant when she moves and she is driving, i dont know if i can drive all the way up there from texas being so far along and having to switch doctors and aplying for medicaid there i cant miss any doctors appointments. should i wait till i have the baby then move? i have a great doctor, she is amazing. what do u think?

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